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The idea of my style of blogging is simple. I want people to read this and stop and think about their actions, their lives, and their responsibilities, to make them see what they could be doing to someone else. The harsh reality is that most people don’t know they’re hurting those around them in some shape or form. By blogging it is non-confrontational, there is no yelling or screaming or pointing of fingers, there is only truth.
The rules of my blog:
-I will never name names. If you think it is about you then it probably is. That is the point.
The Spidey Sense
Why is it when people lie they expect not to be caught? Really? Are you so full of yourself that you think that telling the lies you will be able keep things going the way you want them to? No. That shit explodes. And if it hasn’t yet – it always will. In recent weeks we have had a massive explosion of bullshit. While this is centered on a specific individual, you are all aware of the rules that accompany my blog. No names. Ever.
While I could spend hours ranting – I will try to keep it short and generalized.
For some reason people think that lies will save them from the sad realities of the cruel world around them. You know what? The lies wont fucking save you. No. They wont. Why is it that people feel the need to lie in the first place? Guilt? Pleasure? Fantasy? Unable to face the facts? Whatever the excuse, most of us are equipped with a bullshit meter. Guys, when your spidey sense start to tingle - fucking listen. For people with morals and trust in others listen up. While it seems naïve its actually a good practice to expect people to be honest. Innocent until proven guilty? Live that shit. You are not wrong for wanting to believe in the good in people. Unfortunately people aren’t always who we think they are. It blows. But damn it ‘Luke’ use the fucking force. Listen to yourself.
In light of recent events, ( as many of you reading this are fully aware ) one among us attempted to divide and conquer us. The plan was simple. Lies, and victim cards. Why not just step them fuck up and be responsible and just say how the fuck you felt? Because that would be too easy wouldn’t it? That’s it. Honesty isn’t something you can look down on someone for. Stop being afraid of people not accepting the choices your making. THAT’S JUST IT. THEY’RE YOUR CHOICES. And I mean this of EVERYONE. Stop trying to hold someone else responsible because YOU felt the need to lie not only to YOURSELF, but YOUR FRIENDS, YOUR FAMILY, and EVERYONE you ever knew. It is irresponsible to expect the people your CHOOSING to lie to, to stick around and just live with it.
I’m sorry you lied about the most relevant things in your life right now. Here, let me just clean that mess up for you right now. No. I’m done with it. We are all fucking adults. CLEAN UP YOUR OWN MESS. Don’t claim ignorance as an excuse for your lies. Own the fuck up people. I’ve mentioned this in MANY if not ALL my previous blogs.. It all comes back to accountability, responsibility, and your moral obligation to generally tell the truth. Once again guys when that bullshit meter starts going off – fucking listen. By nature, I am a distrusting person. But sometimes even I don’t see shit coming. Like this time. No. There was no honesty, there is no remorse ( no let me correct that. ) GENUINE remorse, there was only lies and darkness.
Lies destroy relationships, transform friendships, and most generally end in a fucking fiery mangled wreck. Use whatever metaphor your want. Now, I’m not saying ALL lies are bad. White lies aren’t always a bad thing. Like telling someone how much you paid for a gift. Not a bad thing. Usually. ;) We’re talking about the next level bullshit here. Just don’t fucking do it. I am a person who hates liars, lies, and all other forms deceit. Once someone has lied to me its not a bond that I can reform. Generally, I will never trust that person again. But, in the same token, I will give you the fucking shirt off my back until you give me a reason not to be there for you.
You know who you are. You know what you’ve done. You have lied and ruined every relationship you laid your hands on. And for what? Three months worth of time? I hope it was worth it. You leave none of us with any other option but to leave you to deal with the chaotic mess you call your life. We can and will carry on without you. Does this mean all our bonds with you are permanently destroyed? No. But that largely depends on the kind of person you decide you want to be in the future. The level of just machiavellian bullshit floors all of us. And every single day we all sit down and continue to put the fucking pieces together. You have no remorse, no thoughts for the people you lied to, AND LIED ABOUT. You lied about all of us and to gain what? The only thing I see here is that you LOST every friend you lied to and about. Bad call I think. But hey, I’m just jaded and your just a perfectly innocent black widow princess right? Riiiight.
No I don’t think I can just forget what has happened, maybe forgive but certainly never forever forget and there will never be the kind of trust we all had with you. Lies and manipulation on these kinds of levels have ruined our trust in you – and our friendship.
People take a step back and look at yourselves. Lies to anyone are generally considered unethical. Take comfort in those who truly love and care about you – cherish those moments while you have them – we never know what is going to happen tomorrow, and you never know when an avalanche of bullshit is going to come rolling down the hill.
Own YOUR feelings. You ARE NOT going to hold ANYONE else responsible for you how feel. YOU’RE the one with the problem. And that’s fine. No one should turn on you for the truth – and if they do, then they weren’t worth it. People need to understand that when it all comes down to it, the relationships with the people around you are all you really have in the end.
BUT you are the only person you can always count on to be there… but if you had to choose would you rather be alone?
Lies are a choice. And because you make the choice to lie, you also accept the consequences that come with them.
